Madras high court judge seeks counselling before giving verdict in same-sex wedding case

CHENNAI: Hearing a same-sex marriage case, a judge of Madras high court has decided to enrol himself for a ‘psycho-education’ session with a counsellor having expertise in handling LGBT issues, before delivering his judgment.
Justice N Anand Venkatesh said he was trying to break his own preconceived notions. “I want to give myself some more time to churn. Ultimately in this case, the words must come from my heart and not from my head, and the same will not be possible if I am not fully ‘woke’ on this aspect,” the judge said.
On Thursday, when the plea came up for hearing, the judge said a suggestion had been made by counsel for the petitioner for setting out guidelines in cases of this nature.
“I honestly feel that such a session with a professional will help me understand same-sex relationships better and will pave way for my evolution,” the judge added.
The issue pertains to a plea moved by a lesbian couple who faced harassment by police and their parents. On March 30, coming to the aid of couples, the court ordered counselling to them and opposing parents by a specialist who has experience in working with LGBT individuals.
When the plea came up for hearing on Thursday, counsellor Vidhya Dinakaran filed a report submitting that both the petitioners perfectly understand the relationship they have entered into and there is no confusion in their minds.
As far as the parents are concerned, the counsellor submitted that they are more concerned about the stigma attached to the relationship in the society and the consequences it may ensue on their family.
They also apprehend that they will be looked down upon by the society and their own community. The parents are also concerned about the safety and security of their daughters, the report said.